Sixth
Sunday after Epiphany year A
I was
telling Sherry a few days ago that this might be a hard gospel
reading to do a sermon on. Episcopalians are as aware as anyone else
in knowing that we are flawed but we are not real big on focusing on
it. These three readings really give us no wiggle room do they.
In the
first reading, Deuteronomy, we are given a choice. We can obey the
commandments, loving the lord your God and walking in his ways. If we
do not we will perish. Deuteronomy encourages us to make the right
choice.
In the
second reading Paul writes in his letter to the Corinthians: “for
as long as there is jealousy and quarreling among you, are you not of
the flesh, and behaving according to human inclinations.” He tells
them they are acting typically human but he expects more.
Then
there is Matthew chapter 5. Chapter five begins with the sermon on
the mount. Blessed are the poor in spirit, blessed are those who
mourn, blessed are the pure in heart. Later in Mat. 5-13 he tells his
followers, “you are the salt of the earth.” In 5-17 Jesus
assures us, “Do not think I have come to abolish the law or the
prophets, I have come to fulfill them.” Then we get to today’s
reading and he gets to the heart of the law. He tells us it is not
enough to refrain from killing someone, you should not even get angry
with them. He tells us its not enough to not commit adultery because
it you even think about it you are in trouble. He also tells us we
had better have a very good reason if we get divorced.
We
talked about this gospel reading on Tuesday during bible study and
several of us came to the conclusion that Jesus was having a bad day.
Still, what he says makes sense.
When I
was taking classes on the management of student, especially
emotionally disabled students, one thing they emphasized was that we
catch a behavior at its onset. Here is an example of this: Lets say
a student has a habit of throwing things and you notice that before
he does it he looks across the room and at the same time sets his
pencil down. That is the time to address the behavior and not to
wait until he has actually starts hurling objects. Trust me, you
get to where you can spot those antecedent behaviors if you pay close
attention. Have you ever had someone like your mother or father or
in my case a spouse say, “don't even think about it!” That's
what I am talking about. Catch them while a behavior is in the
“thinking about it” stage and stop it there.
This
can apply to us. You know there are antecedent behaviors before we
do anything. That is when the grown up inside of us needs to take
charge and say, “Fred! Don't even think about it!” I don't know
about you but I am going to work on my behavior and antecedent
behaviors all week. I will let you know how it goes.
Amen
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